Keep yourself Safe!!

Many people ask, "What can I do to prevent being raped?" Unfortunately, there are no easy answers to this question and no guarantees against rape. There are some things that can be done to minimize the risk, however not doing these things does not make you responsible for the assault. Everyone reacts differently to danger.

Communicate your limits and desires clearly. That means letting your date know where you want to eat, what movies you want to see and when and where you want (or don't want) physical contact.

Avoid being alone in isolated locations. Most rapes occur out of earshot from other people, in parked cars and empty houses.

Stay sober, most rapes occur while one or both of the individuals are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. This may be more of an issue than you think. The use of so-called "date rape drugs" is on the rise.

Go group/double dates. If you are unsure of a new acquaintance or are going on a "blind date", this can give you the opportunity to get to know the person better before being alone with them. Trust your instincts. If you are in a situation that doesn't feel right, listen to your inner voice that says, "I'm uncomfortable."

Act on your instincts! If it is possible to do so, leave the uncomfortable situation quickly. If things start to get out of hand, be loud in protesting. It is helpful to plan ahead what you might do if you are in a sexually dangerous situation such as making a plan to scream, run, act crazy, or hit the perpetrator. Whatever you choose to do or not to do, sexual assault is NEVER YOUR FAULT!!